"Everyone's Got Wings"

It is the day before Thanksgiving. The day before we crowd a family of twenty plus people into a big beach house to eat all of our favorite dishes and play games for hours. The day before we undo the button on our jeans (or if we're smart, we just wear sweats... or maternity pants) and drink more sparkling cider than should ever be allowed. The day before we recognize as a nation that this is a day to actually think about the people and moments in life we are thankful for. Of course, we are encouraged to count our blessings every day and to praise Him who gave us yet another day of life. But this Thanksgiving, I have specifically grasped on to something new to be thankful for.

Today I just finished reading the book Heaven is for Real, "a little boy's astounding story of his trip to Heaven and back" while having an appendectomy from a ruptured appendix and multiples abscesses. Over the course of months, and even years after he had his surgery, this little 4-year-old vividly tells, in a child's language, about meeting Jesus and experiencing the brilliance of heaven. Of course I cannot give you the entire story right here, with all of the supporting evidence behind little Colton's words. But when asked many cautiously open-ended questions by his parents, Colton responded with a few examples below:

"I was sitting in Jesus' lap..."
"When I was with Jesus, you were praying,
and Mommy was talking on the phone..."
"Everyone's got wings..."        
"Jesus has red markers on him..."                                               
"Did you know Jesus has a horse?"  
"His eyes are so pretty, Daddy!"
"That's where all the rainbow colors are..."
"All the people have a light above their head..."                                          
"There were lots of kids, Dad..."        
"He said I had to go back because he was answering your prayer..."
"My wings were really little, but Pop's were big!"
"Jesus has brown hair and he has hair on his face..."
"You had a baby die in your tummy, didn't you mommy? She's okay,
she said she can't wait for you and Daddy to get to heaven..."
"Jesus' chair is right next to his Dad's..."
"God and Jesus light up heaven..."
"God is the biggest one there is..."
"The Holy Spirit? ...That's kind of a hard one...he's kind of blue"       
"Jesus said he really, really loves the children..."
"Jesus told me he had to die on the cross so we could go see Dad..."
"Gabriel is really nice..."
"It's going to be okay. The first person you're going to see is Jesus"
"There are too swords in heaven... Mom, Satan's not in hell yet"
"Heaven is for real."

Selfishly, I latch on to one of these phrases: "My wings were really little, but Pop's were big!" (Pop was Colton's great-gradfather, whom he had never met). First of all... if we have wings in heaven, then all my dreams will have come true. Even more amazing though, are Colton's experiences showing that we will know and recognize our family -- even the ones that we have never met. Of course I have believed this before, that we will "see them again", and will be reuinited with those that we miss more than our hearts can take at times. But now I have hope more than ever.

According to a little boy named Colton, my little brother has little wings, a perfect new body and is already hanging out with the family that has gone on before me. Experiencing these honest descriptions of a child has placed in me a fresh and personable realization that heaven is here and existing... right now. That Douglas is running around Jesus' feet with children and family amidst the purest joy there can be...right now. Even though "now" is a relative term between heaven and earth, Colton's story suggests that those in heaven have knowledge of our lives here, and are rooting and waiting for us. No wonder people always say that there is a party in heaven when another soul is brought into the Kingdom!

You may believe the story of Colton, or you may not. I challenge you to go grab this book (I finished it in a few hours) and see for yourself. As I mentioned before, I have only briefly skimmed the surface of the in-depth descriptions of the conversations that brought this book to life.

For everything that I read, I am so thankful. I'm thankful for the promise that heaven is real, heaven is waiting...

And Douglas is rooting for me to get there!   --->

Happy Thanksgiving and cheers!

Jamie Leanne

                                                                                

You'll Find Me

I was recently digging through documents saved in my computer when I came across these unfinished lyrics (which I just now finished). There is a melody attached to these as well, though I have not had the opportunity to record it anywhere for you to listen. To be honest, I had forgotten that I had even started this piece, and taking in these long lost words spoke to me all over again, as if they were freshly inspired thoughts. No, I'm not saying, "man, I'm good!" because I inspired myself... But lyrics like these end up speaking to us differently in different seasons or situations in life. I hope these words will meet you somewhere today and redirect your thoughts to gain the perspective and Joy of His promises.

 

Meet me in morning stillness

Find me in every breath

Bring me into your weakness

I’ll be your strength, I’ll be your strength

Hear me in every heart beat

Even when silence falls

Abandon your understanding

You’ll hear me call, you’ll hear me call

      I am nearer than you know

      You will never be alone

      I am more real than anything

      This life can hold

      You’ll find me

Watch in a child’s laughter

See in a widow’s tears

I will be here long after

One moment of joy, one moment of fear

Pray when you cannot feel it

When deserts surround your heart

I’m the wellspring of joy within you

You’re never too far, never too far

      I am nearer than you know

      You will never be alone

      I am more real than anything

      This life can hold

               

      You’ll find me

My love will never fail you

My joy will not run dry

Listen and I will lead you

Seek me and you will find

      You’ll find me


Cheers,

Jamie Leanne

The Reality Shelf

Here it is...the season of fall. I am truly treasuring this current change in leaves and Portland weather -- or more specifically boots, scarves and crackling fires. This season invites the smooth scents of cider and pumpkins, with little splashes of orange and brown to cozy up a room. Though I am living with my older sister, Krista, her 4-year-old daughter, Ava, and their dog, Charlie (the girl), I still take it upon myself to make the living areas warm, inviting, and -- here comes the truth -- perfect. At least for when company arrives. The pillows are fluffed, and throw blankets casually placed on the couches (as if they'd just been neatly used), the area rug is vacuumed and surfaces wiped clean of dust. Chairs are straightened, and apple cinnamon and pumpkin candles are lit about ten minutes prior to arrival to make sure the aromas have permeated just enough. I breathe in, I smile to myself and I relax.

I return back down the hallway of hardwood floors and open the door to my bedroom to make sure it's at least presentable. Clean for the most part. Nothing strays on the floor or rests piled up in a corner. While I am moderately satisfied with its appearance, there is a looming distraction filling my conscience. Like a shadow by my side, like gum stuck on my shoe, like the constant ticking of a clock, it summons me -- my Reality Shelf. This is a term I have used frequently with Josh, my fiance, as a justification for the messy and cluttered being of a shelf that lives in my room. All of my books are laid this way and that, with dozens of lotion bottles mixed in between. A little green basket of misfit items sits in the middle of the shelf with batteries, old gift cards and an unfinished underwater camera from a family trip to Maui that happened months ago. The printer that I still haven't gotten to work sits on the bottom shelf with random DVDs, a silly hand-made picture frame, a little rock that says hope, and a couple mugs that weren't able to fit in the kitchen cupboard. I tense...then I breath in, I smile and I relax.

You see, some parts of me want to be ashamed of my Reality Shelf. I often feel like I need to justify this piece of me that is not quite presented perfectly and readily. But in reality, this is me. This is the shelf that contains the memories and heartache that some may see only as clutter. These books have traveled with me to foreign countries, given me inspiration, and brought me through my own torrents of emotion and spirituality. That unfinished water camera (which I will finish) documents the first time that Josh and I swam with a sea turtle, only days after he proposed to me (Josh, not the sea turtle). That little rock with the miraculous word of hope is a constant and desperate reminder of my beloved little brother, who I now can only visit in my dreams. This is my reality; yes, this is truly me.

We are often afraid of who and what we are perceived to be. We make sure to quickly conceal the personality traits or past events that seem to hinder our "perfect version" of self. If someone comes in unannounced and discovers a less-than-desirable version of what we have tried to display, we only become aware of what we are not rather than the beautiful collage of what we are. Aren't you tired of always falling short in your own comparisons? In truth, without the element of a Reality Shelf, we would be no more dynamic than a lifeless manikin dressed up in a showcase window. The elements of life that have brought us fear, depression, anguish and bittersweet sorrow no longer need to be anchors that hold us back from living translucently. Rather, they are the reminders that lead us to relish peace, joy, excitement and bittersweet hope.The Lord has searched you, inside and out, and He knows you. He knows how beautifully you can make your home, as well as how messy your Reality Shelf has become. He treasures them both, your strengths and your weaknesses. He longs for you to sort through your reality -- avoiding the tendency to linger on the past -- to cherish the broken road that led you to today. Our job is not to show up refined, but to be readily refinable, with our box of messy misfits in hand.

It's a loose theory but I can bet that you have a Reality Shelf as well, either physically in your back bedroom or somewhere hovering like a shadow in your heart. Either way, embrace it. Remember it. Know that it does not define you but shows the life you have lived and the merciful road you have traveled.

Come on over, I would love to show you my real self -- my Reality Shelf.

Cheers,

Jamie Leanne

The Appetizer

I love ordering appetizers in restaurants or serving them in casual gatherings. I love that you can order multiple items of varying ethnicities, satisfying every taste bud and meeting every preference. Food brings people together and into community, no matter the reason. Somehow, after dipping and sharing, "nibbling" and sipping, you still find some room in your body for the full meal you may have forgotten you ordered. Then maybe dessert, too. With coffee. And some dinner mints at the door.

The appetizer is the gateway to the evening, or the kick-off, so to speak. It allows everyone to engage in conversation and laugh about the petty happenings of life's day-to-day rhythm. As dinner is served, then dessert (perhaps the coffee as well), the conversation becomes more involved and deeply enriching, perhaps circulating different elements of life or spice in each sentence. You begin to feel full and satisfied, not just from the eyes-were-bigger-than-your-stomach syndrome, but from the laughter or the tears, from the nourishment of conversation and community to your soul. And then there is the dinner mint -- the hug good-bye at the end of the night that leaves you feeling revived, refreshed...and with good breath, no doubt.

My purpose in writing this blog is to tell you my ever growing story, hopefully enriching your life with real and uninhibited conversation. I hope you walk away from my posts feeling that a small part of you has been refreshed. Though we all live and think differently in our own worlds, we were created by God to live and share in community. Everyone has a story to be told. And like everyone has his or her preferences for choice appetizers in a restaurant, all of the stories, poems, lyrics and revelations that I share will pertain to different lives on different days for different reasons. Some may be meant for laughter, some for questioning, and most likely some for tears. For everything, there is a season. I hope that, somehow, I am able to tap into an area of your life and provide some element of wisdom or joy that will keep you coming back for a fulfilling conversation. In this case, it's alright if your eyes are bigger than your stomach.

Cheers!

Jamie Leanne